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I’ve got a large number of websites that I either provide content for, or maintain on a regular basis. Since several of My sites deal specifically with fetish or the BDSM community, I get contacted, almost daily, by people who are looking for partners. Since I’ve spent plenty of My own time looking for a BDSM partner I can certainly understand and sympathize with the quest.

One thing you need to know before you get started is that you’re dealing with a very small segment of the populace. I don’t have any hard statistics on the subject, but I’m guessing that people who actually identify themselves as a member of the BDSM community are as low as 5 or 10 percent of the public. That means simply that as hard as it is to just find someone in general, it’s exceptionally hard to find a good match if you’re looking for a BDSM partner.

What you’re looking for within the BDSM community will make a big difference too. Men who are actively involved in BDSM far outweigh the number of women. That’s good news if you’re looking for a man, but if you’re looking for a woman, your search just got tougher. And if you’re a submissive man (tons of those) looking for a dominant woman (very very few of those), then you’ve really got a large mountain to climb. No matter what you’re looking for, the more you get out there, the better chance that you’ll find someone.

There are three decent ways to meet the partner of your dreams – BDSM Email Groups, BDSM Personals, and BDSM Organizations. The best method would be to utilize all of these avenues.

I’ll talk more about these in the next part of my article.

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